If You Really Loved Me by Jason Evert

"Regret lasts much longer than embarrassment." 191
"Do not marry someone unless they love God more than they love you." 183
"Freedom can only be attained through self control." 138
"The essence of manhood consists in readiness to deny oneself for the good of a beloved." 115
Additional Notes Added 9 June 2010:
"Romance is when imagination and love meet" (19).
"'The greater the feeling of responsibility for the [beloved] the more true love there is'" (JP2, 42).