The Magic of Thinking Big by David J. Schwartz
- Chapter 1 - Believe you can succeed and you will
- Your mind is a thought factory: Mr. Triumph vs. Mr. Defeat
- Think success instead of failure
- Remind yourself that you are better than you think you are
- Believe big (you won’t accomplish less than you set out to)
- Chapter 2 - Cure yourself of Excusitis
- “My health isn’t good” ->
- Refuse to talk about your health
- Refuse to worry about your health
- Be grateful that your health is as good as it is
- “I’m not smart enough” ->
- Don’t underestimate your intelligence and overestimate that of others
- Remind yourself “my attitudes are more important than my intelligence”
- Thinking is more valuable than memorizing facts
- “I’m too old/young” ->
- Look at your present age positively
- Compute how much productive time you have left
- Invest future time in doing what you really want to do
- “I have bad luck” ->
- Accept the law of cause and effect
- Don’t be a wishful thinker
- Chapter 3 - Build confidence and destroy fear
- Action cures fear:
- Isolate your fear and determine exactly what you are afraid of
- Then take action against that exact reason for fear
- Self-confidence: Deposit only positive thoughts into your memory bank, and withdraw only positive thoughts
- Put others in perspective
- Get a balanced view of others: they are important, but so are you
- Develop an understanding attitude
- Five confidence-building exercises:
- Sit in the front row
- Make eye contact
- Walk 25% faster
- Speak up
- Smile big
- Chapter 4 - How to think big
- Don’t sell yourself short and don’t be self depreciating
- Use big thinking vocabulary: big, bright, cheerful words
- See what you can be, not just what you are
- Get the big view of your job, which is the next step to your promotion
- Think about important things rather than trivialities
- Chapter 5 - How to think and dream creatively
- Believe it can be done: believing a solution paves the way to a solution
- Don’t let tradition paralyze your mind
- Ask yourself “How can I do better?”
- Ask yourself “How can I do more?”
- Practice asking and listening, rather than talking
- Stretch your mind, and associate people who help you to think new ideas
- Chapter 6 - You are what you think you are
- Look important to help you think important
- Think your work is important
- Give yourself a pep talk a few times a day
- Ask yourself “Is this the way an important person thinks?
- Chapter 7 - Manage your environment: go first class
- Be mindful of your environment: the mind-diet makes your mind
- Make your environment work for you, not against you
- Don’t let small-thinking people hold you back
- Get your advice from successful people
- Get psychological sunshine: new groups, new stimulating things
- Throw thought-poison out of your environment
- Go first class in everything you do
- Chapter 8 - Make your attitudes your allies
- Results come with enthusiasm, so grow your “I’m activated” attitude:
- If you’re not interested in something, learn more about it
- Act alive
- Broadcast good news
- People do more for you when you make them feel important
- Show appreciation at every opportunity
- Call people by name
- Grow a “service first” attitude and money will take care of itself
- Chapter 9 - Think right toward people
- Be likable
- Take the initiative in building friendships; introduce yourself
- Accept other people’s differences
- Practice conversation generosity by encouraging others to talk
- Be courteous
- Don’t blame others when you experience a setback
- Chapter 10 - Get the action habit
- Be a doer, not a don'ter
- Don’t wait until conditions are perfect
- Ideas won’t bring success, they only have value when you act upon them
- Think in terms of now
- Chapter 11 - How to turn defeat into victory
- Study setbacks to pave the way to success
- Be your own constructive critic
- Don’t blame luck
- Blend persistence with experimentation
- There is a good side to every situation - find it
- Chapter 12 - Use goals to help you grow
- Know where you want to be: create an image of yourself 10 years from now
- Write out your 10-year plan
- Surrender yourself to your desires; set goals
- Let your major goal be your auto-pilot
- Work toward your goal one step at a time
- Build 30-day goals
- Take detours in stride
- Invest in yourself
- Chapter 13 - How to think like a leader
- Trade minds with the people you want to influence
- In everything, put other people first
- Think improvement in everything you do
- Take time out with yourself and spend time thinking alone